Why the teenage girl is more spiritually scarred by pre-marital
sex than is the teenage boy.
Over the years I have discovered that it is much easier to identify
sexually active girls than it is boys. As one priest — referring to
girls — put it: "Premarital sex drains the soul right out of them."
This is not to suggest that premarital sexual activity causes little
damage to a boy's character. Nothing could be further from the
truth. But one more readily sees the depletion in the woman's
countenance. A girl simply has more to lose, which is why when she
does lose it, the loss is more manifest in her gaze. Let me
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